Posts by Eva Elly
What To DO When He Says He Needs Space

For many of us it can be extremely difficult to be with the emotional turmoil, that may come up when a man asks for space (or in any other way communicates that he’s not available to talk or be with us).

This is why there are TWO things you need in this moment:


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The Importance of Attachment Styles - And Why This Is Not All!

And if you listen to the experts, it’s easy to get the idea that if you only can master your attachment issues and stay away from “the wrong attachment styles”, your relationship journey will be an easy ride.

Unfortunately, I’m here to tell you that this is not all…there are SO many aspects of a relationship that goes far beyond the reason of attachment.

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Navigating Long Distance Relationship

Once I was in a long distance relationship.

I had just come out of a divorce. 

I remember the ups and downs - the hope, the expectations and the new freedom after being divorced… living alone… and at the same time the rollercoasters of emotions… of sadness and loneliness and fear.

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Are You Feeling Stuck?

Are you feeling stuck - in your relationship, with your man? Or in your career, in your life? Or just stuck in this moment?

When we feel stuck - or overwhelmed, or stressed - it is often because our masculine energy has taken over our life. Our urge to do, to take action, to think and analyse rules our every step. It is an energy of control. No wonder we feel stuck.

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How to Overcome Fear of Intimacy

You´re definitely on to something here - it IS difficult to be intimate with another, if we are not intimate with ourselves….at least if we view intimacy as something somewhat broader than just something that has to do with sex or body.

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